I was just wondering, because when I take a look around the site, a lot of them seem to count it as a "deal breaker" if the guy doesn't pay for her. It doesn't seem to matter who asks. At worse, if has to she pay for herself (nevermind returning the favor by covering both), "it's over" seems to be a pretty strong concensus. I often hear that when a girl "offers" to pay for own meal, she isn't really offering; but being polite.
So, is it safe to say they are more concerned with having money spent on them rather than the guy himself? Do they really feel entitled to not only be chased, but feel entitled to spend another person's money as well?
In a sense, isn't the guy paying her for her time? Wouldn't that make escort services a better bet, since the guy gets the hottest women hassle free? He gets all the benefits of a woman without any of the childish games, right?
I know that about a million people are going to rush in and say how they are diffent, so I'm just going to say that I'm talking about general/typical American dating.
Please, no immature/emotional/hate comments. This is a serious question.
Do you all think escorts would be better than the average girl?
Paying for the dates has no guarantees with the average woman. But, with escorts, the guy is 100% guaranteed to get the most important benefits of the best looking women, and it's hassle free.
What do you guys think? Kind of makes you re-think the dynamics of dating.
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Not necessarily. Interesting insight for sure. Something I hadn't really considered but no..I mean not all girls want guys to always pay for them. When I am dating a guy, we will take turns. Actually I was paying a lot at the beginning of this relationship then he had gotten more money so then he was to return the favor. So I like it to be even because I do not think it is fair for just the guy to have to pay for everything. He has his own stuff to pay for too, so why break the bank?1
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