so I'm 18 and the furthest I've gone with a guy has been holding hands and cuddling. a little spooning too.
i ask this because yesterday I found out the guy I liked had another girl in mind. the mutual guy friend who told me ended up playing psychologist with me and helping me talk through my fear of always being replaced by a better girl. he asked about my relationship history and I ended up telling him I had never been kissed even though I planned not to tell anyone that. it makes me feel so inadequate and like no one would like me as more than friends. now I wonder what judgment he made about me knowing that, I know he won't tell anyone but I just feel very vulnerable. he seemed surprised when I told him. I've only known him a month and he is my closest guy friend but I hope he doesn't see me differently after seeing me cry and knowing how inexperienced I am. he also noticed how weak my whole body was after crying and talking for about an hour. he gave me a big hug and picked me up. I was so weak my whole body was really limp and I couldn't control it well. I was just physically and emotionally drained because it was late at night too. I had to really try to make it up the stairs back to my room because my legs were shaking badly.
in this kind of situation, would you think any differently about the girl knowing this very personal stuff? thanks for any answers!
- I would think less of her for being so weak12% (1)0% (0)5% (1)Vote
- It doesn't make any difference50% (4)73% (8)63% (12)Vote
- I would feel closer to her as friends38% (3)27% (3)32% (6)Vote
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There's men and women on here that are in their 30 40s and up that have never had a first kiss or boyfriend/girlfriend. Most people find it cute, that someone isn't experienced shows they have good morals or something along the lines of that :). You'll find him don't worry so much about it. GL !0