I guess they say our mates should be our best friends so besides perhaps lack of attraction what other reasons are you guys not together?
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I had a really good friend in high school that was an amazing friend, but he had the worst sense of humor (offensive) and every once in a while I could laugh politely but if I were a girlfriend I would pick a fight. I had another really good friend in high school at is an amazing guy, but every five minutes he is lusting after a new girl. Then I had a really close friend that I worked with who was incredibly charming, but I didn't have the guts to ask him out... besides there is no need for drama in the work place. Then there was a wonderful man I worked with in Chicago that was an amazing friend, but in relationships he became vain, demanding, critical, quick to anger, selfish, arrogant, and rude. There was another guy that I was really good friends with that had a horrible drinking problem that he would not (or could not) fix, and as a friend I could be really supportive from the sidelines, but as a girlfriend I would become too pushy and naggy and I didn't want to turn into the woman (especially when I didn't think it would change his behavior anyway).
Some people really are just better off as friends.1