BUT I DO pay for other things. I've paid for our lunch, I've paid for our drinks when we went out, I even paid for his groceries and cooked the food for him when I stayed the night with him. When it comes to going on dates, I just don't feel feminine when I have to pay. I know it sounds harsh, but it's the truth. I don't have a problem with one day treating him to a nice dinner, but I want to do it when when I want and not just because he tells me to. .Is this being unfair?
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Not good. If he feels like he's putting too much money into your relationship (i.e. going on dates and him having to pay for everything) he's an ass. If you think you don't have to pay for dates because you pay for everything else then I think that's a little unbalanced as well. SHARE - that's your only solution. Compromise as well. But honestly, my partner & I has never had this issue. He always offers to pay when we go out but because I earn about as much as him I offer to about half the time we do, it's fair and come on it's not practical to always make him pay. We don't live together and he has a place to himself and whenever we go out grocery shopping it's just a matter of who has the most stuff in the trolley (I know, it's a bit dumb lol but it works).0