So I'm a confident, career-driven, hard working independent woman. I'm 21 gonna be 22 soon...and never had a proper relationship. Lots of guys have liked me before, and I never seemed to like them until they became unavailable. I'm just wondering, is there something women do that ward you off? That even if you find her attractive and friendly, you'd never bother chasing her?
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These are bad assumptions on my part I'll admit, but if she never talks about guys, dating, anything personal, I assume she doesn't want to date. Also adding on "career-driven (not a bad thing by any means)", especially when she's 21 going on 22, it tells me again that she doesn't want to date or doesn't have time. Again, bad assumption.
For me personally, I'm rather shy, so by default it takes a bit longer for me to work up the courage to ask. If she's very attractive, I make another mistake of thinking "she's way too pretty to be single" or "she's probably got guys hitting on her all the time. What does she need one more for (though I usually want to at least be acquainted first)?" Bottom line, it's more bad assumptions than stuff she does/says or doesn't do/say.0