I went on an introductory date with this girl (by that I mean that it was just lunch nothing special) and I can't decide if I should ask her out again so I need an outside opinion? I should start out by saying that I met her online so I knew only a limited amount about her from the few emails and texts we exchanged. Anyways she was pretty, nice, and we have things in common but when we met up she probably talked non stop for 45 min out of the hr and didn't really seem too inquizitive about me. Also we live about an hr and half apart and I'm not sure if I can do a long distance relationship again. By that I mean I dated a girl for two and half years in a long distance relationship and when she broke up with me I swore off doing it again. Problem with long distance relationships is that it takes all your weekends, you can't be spontaneous, your spending too much time traveling, and I like the idea of being able to see the girl I'm dating during the week; not just during the weekend. So I don't know if I can handle it. Finally, I'm tired of being alone and I'm worried that if I don't try another date I could be passing a chance to not be lonely again. So any outside thoughts would be great?
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If you like her see her again,if you don't think you can handle being in a long distance relationship then don't ask her out again,because you don't want to stuff her around and I know you may be lonely,but don't be with someone just because your lonely,be with them because you like them and because you want to be with them.And just because your last relationship didn't work out,doesn't mean this one won't.She may have been nervous the first time you saw her,I even do that when I'm nervous,I talk a lot.Some people stay quiet or talk a lot and also do it to avoid awkward silences.Have you only hung out once?0