We are both 45, met on online dating ,we have both now come off of the site. He is a Policeman and before our date he text me constantly. I went there to see him and we spent five hours together,in which time he constantly looked into my eyes,held my hand,linked arms with me,asked me for a kiss,he talked of future dates and I thought we got on really well.That was three weeks ago! since the date he just sends me a joke or two every day or other day. I asked him if he is free Saturday he said he is working ,so I think he is not that interested and I stop texting him,then he says hey you OK ? and more jokes!Why does he not tell me when he is free or have a conversation with me if he is that interested? and why the jokes? I just don't get it!
Our date was great! but that was three weeks ago! now he just texts me a joke every day or two days! wtf!
What Guys Said 2
"I asked him if he is free Saturday he said he is working ,so I think he is not that interested"
There's your problem right there.
You asked if he was free, and he said no, that he was working.
And you make the same mistake every other woman seems destined to make.
You ignored the words coming out of his mouth, and decided he meant something else.
You're the one that decided he wasn't interested, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
What you should have done, is replied with "Well, when are you free? I'd like to see if a second date is on the cards." or something like that. Instead, you resorted to playing mind games with the poor guy.
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