So he's really REALLY sweet. He tells me how beautiful I am and that I have a beautiful soul. He also writes poetry and he's really good at it.
The problem is that he's not good looking at all. I try not to judge people, but it's really hard not to.
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I think if you were truly attracted to his personality, his looks wouldn't be a factor. No matter what he looked like, if there was a real connection between the two of you, you would find him attractive. Instead you list out his assets like you're trying to convince yourself and the rest of us he'll be the perfect boyfriend. Why do you have to convince yourself? Shouldn't your feelings be enough?
I think you just like how he makes you feel - which has nothing to do with your feelings towards him. Don't convince yourself to give him a chance just because he boosts your ego - I believe he deserves a woman that truly appreciates everything about him. Would you be apprehensive to introduce him as your boyfriend? Does it matter what other people think?
Of course if he is in love with you - I'm sure he doesn't care. It's enough that you're with him, no matter the reason why. I just don't think it could last unless you care about him as much as he cares about you. Maybe with time you could.