Alright so I went on this date with a girl last night. It was the first time I met her in person too. So we were going to see a movie, and on the drive there, I tried my best to make conversation with her, you know to get to know her a little. She did not say much but did smile and laugh quite a bit when she answered. At one point I looked over at her and she was shaking a little and took a big deep breath. I think she was nervous?
She was shy and did not ask me any questions or anything at all. This left me pretty disappointed and slightly turned off because I did not know if she was interested in me or bored since I was doing all of the talking, which I hate. Usually there is a good balance between other girls I have been with. Well eventually the movie was over and then we held hands on the way to my car and we talked a bit about the movie but once again she did not say much.
So, I took her home, gave her a goodbye hug and that was it... I ended up texted her a little later saying goodnight., haven't texted her at all today and she did not text me either. After reading her Facebook statuses, I think she was actually interested in me after all, and seems a little sad that I did not text her today, but I do not want her. I hate to sound like a d***, but I kinda feel like I wasted my time with her. She's pretty cute and nice but the communication was just not there. It's just that I tried my best to talk to her and get to know her but she did not make any effort to do the same for me.
So here's the dilemma, I think she actually did enjoy the time with me, but I did not feel the same. I am just trying to figure out if I should feel obligated to be nice and talk to her again, and maybe try to be friends? I don't want to lead her on but I do kinda feel like I should say something? Or does she deserve a second chance? Or should I just forget about her and move on? Any suggestions or any kind of help would be greatly appreciated.
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Well,if you don't really want her then I don't see the point in asking her out again really but as you think she is cute what harm would there be in asking her out again,may be she won't be so nervous the next time and you could get to know her better but chances are she will be nervous and shy for a while cause that may just be her personality and you might have more chance of getting blood out of a stone then her making conversation,so why bother! but a second date could be the decider for you.1
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