I have this good friend who's a guy who recently got a girlfriend and it's just like "HEY OVER HERE. LOOK AT ME. PLEASE." I mean we've been good friends for 2 years, and it's like I'm one of the guys with him like we joke around and talk about football and that kind of stuff but I'm also like a best girl friend to him too like he'll talk about his girl problems and ask advice. I just feel like saying like "okay here I am hello I like you why can't you see this we're perfect together"
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Your friends, you have shared moments with him no one else knows about, you know him inside out, so that can be scarey, to go with a girl who knows all this, you need to cut it off and tell him that now he has a girlfriend, you have realized that you can't be friends to the degree you were, he will ask for sure, why, and be honest, let him know that all this time spending it with him etc you have realized that you have feelings for him a friend don't usually have, and to see him with someone else is just destroying you inside, let him know that you still want to be friends, but need to find a way to accept that you and him are just friends, this way, if he has feelings for you he has a great chance in telling you now, but if he dont, he will still be gutted because, when your really good friends like that and that you think it is strictly platonic, you feel as if you have lost an arm, you become lost, you end up mourning your best mate, so if he don't feel like that, try and reassure him that when you deal with your emotions for him, can you ring him for a chat, but you have got to be prepared to deal with your emotions otherwise you will destroy this great friendship you have with him, You have talent, it won't go un noticed,x0