i've been talking to this boy for a few weeks now. whenever we hangout, we act like we're together...in a cute way. but when we're talking and stuff I feel like I have to initiate everything, whereas in person, he initiates things. how does this work? I feel like I'm bothering him when I text him/call him. I'm falling for him hard, but I don't know if he feels the same way. what do I dooo?!
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a lot of guys do not like texting much. they mainly use it for practical things like asking where and when to meet or why someones late. he may ask for directions via text or something similar but to have back and forth conversation it doesn't seem to be a priority to many. some guys don't like talking on the phone but if the guy is interested in you, most likely he will put in an effort to do these things. he may just be a flirt or if he is interested in a relationship with you he is just bad at showing it. bring it up with him in person when you know you have his full attention and ask him what the deal is (not in an offensive way, because he will get defensive) but if you ask him and are straightforward with him then he will probably give you a straightup basic honest answer.0