Okay so my ex called yesterday, but left no message or anything. I didn't call him back because I figured if it's urgent than he would leave a message or something.
Is it true that if someone actually wants/loves you they will work hard to show it? He has contacted me a couple times the last few weeks through text for silly reasons.
Or do you think he won't call back again because it may have taken a lot of courage for him to call me.
I would really like to know what you guys think, thanks!
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If you call him back he will think you are still into him. So if you are still into him call him, but if you aren't you need to go with the no-contact rule for a while. If you are confused, you need to go with the no-contact rule until you know what you want. If he keeps calling, let him know you need to be left alone for a while... or get back together and give another try. Those are your choices. The being friends thing is just a way for people to cling to a relationship that doesn't exist anymore.0