If I only knew. I am a 53 year old woman living in the Bay Area, CA. I am in good shape physically, weight/height appropriate, educated with a fine-tuned sense of humor. I have been single for over 3 years and am beginning to accept that is my destiny. I would love to meet a similar minded man who is still in shape, not a hardcore exercise nut, enjoys traveling, self-sufficient, with a good sense of humor. Am I setting my sights too high? I have utilized online dating sites in the past with a small amount of luck, but would prefer not to go that route. Any suggestions out there?
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wow, I'm surprised your not married. That's actually quite understandable for your standards. If your trying to get back in the dating scene I recommend a couple of things that you should take into consideration.
1) Your image = The image you give off, is the image guys are going to in vision you as. For example: If you wear something like a nice dress with the skirt a little bit above your knee caps, it does give off this image : " I'm Hot and I like to show off" With that image, guys will mostly try to get one night stands if they can. So dress that makes you say your Beautiful/gorgeous, but not easy to obtain at all.
2) When your out there at malls, bars, clubs, lounges, anywhere public and sociable, try to keep a smile but as well as nonchalant. Like your positive and willing to hear people out but don't give them a bad vibe or you might shut down some peoples confidence and cause them to mess up in their opening statements to start a conversation.
3) I would suggest to also use everything in terms of social wise, meaning a Facebook account, match.com, e-harmony, chemistry.com, etc. Those sites can be your back pocket tricks. You can use those to work to your advantage when your at work, a club, or somewhere else trying to meet other men. So even if you do or don't get lucky, you will have an opportunity to have someone find you and develop a connection with in the process. So it will help you narrow down and find other men in shorter time.
Good luck out there =)0