There is this girl I find really cute, I have her best friend's phone number, even though we don't really talk.
Me and her best friend aren't really friends, I got her number in a prom and never really talked to her lol.
So here is the story:
Monday I was at a coffee shop with a friend and I saw this girl that I found really cute but she was there with a bunch of friends, so I didn't really approached her. Now that I've been thinking I regret that I didn't approach her but now it's too late, she is in a different school but in the same city as I, therefore I don't really see her a lot, maybe once or twice a month, I don't know. So I was wondering if I should get her number from her best friend.
What do you think? Should I wait until I see her again which can take some time, or should I try to get her number from her best friend?
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Should I get her number from a friend? No it's passive and sort of creepy.
The passivity indicates that you probably lack confidence to approach her so you have to go about getting what you want in a roundabout way.
The creepy aspect comes from the fact you're getting personal information about her in order to contact her from other sources other than herself.
Plus there's the aspect her friend could write you off as a desperate creep.
Should I wait until I see her again which can take some time, or should I try to get her number from her best friend? Wait to see her again.0