i met this girl from okcupid and we have been sending messages to each other for over a month and she lives in the same city as me. now the problem is that I don't know how online dating works. when should I ask her out on a date and when should I ask for her number?
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Haha I had an okcupid account too. It depends on the type of relationship and how well you guys have connect and if you feel like you and this girl have been talking a good amount and that its not weird or awkward or anything and that she seems like she's really into you, then go for it. there's not really a timeline for these types of things. if you're worried about the way she'll take it, phrase it nicely like "hey I don't mean to be too forward or anything, but I have a really good time talking to you and id like to meet up in person if you're okay with that idea" or something like that. then if she says okay then you exchange numbers.
thats one way to do it. otherwise (depending on how long your conversations are) you can be like hey it'll be easier for me to text if that's okay with you. I mean I've had people say "just text me" or "im not really on here much anymore so you should text me"0