Say you met this guy and you've not really talked all that much but he has a crush on you. Would you rather him tell you even though you barely know him or would you rather him flirt with you for a while before he tells you? If so how long would he have to flirt before you would be comfortable with him telling you?
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Rather him flirt / talk with me.
Think about it like this:
You: Hey :D
Girl you've barely talked to: Oh..Hi :D
You: How are you?
Girl you've barely talked to: Good...um what's your name again?
You: Bob - I think your so beatiful and have the biggest crush on you.
Girl you've barely talked to: ...um thanks?
See how awkward that is?
I think it's much better for one, your chances of being with that person, and two if that person is even worth the effort - if you guys flirt and get to know each other a little bit first.
She may seem so gorgeous, but she could turn out to be bitchy, clingy , annoying - etc - but you won't know that until you get to know her.
It would suck putting all your time and effort into dating her, just for her to turn out to not even be that great of a person.
So flirting, talking - becoming friends is the best way to go about things IMO - it will make you both much more comfortable - especially in expressing how you really feel a little later on.0