So This girl and I were best friends. She had a boyfriend and I knew it, but I didn't see her as a girl I wanted to date anyway, she was just one of the guys. She started relying on me a lot and she saw me more than she ever saw her boyfriend. We went to dinner all the time and and hung out all weekend. She started calling me constantly and my every waking moment I wasn't at work was spent with her. Finally I saw her boyfriend do some very d***headed stuff too her and I decided that she deserved better. I started bettering myself, and started involving her in everything in my life. She made me take her to meet my parents and would slip and call me by her bf's name and would also slip and say I love you at the end of phone calls. One day she sat me down and told me that if you mixed me and him together that we would be the greatest boyfriend ever. Well a friend slipped and told her that I was in love with her and she withdrew her friendship. Nothing hurt more than when she chose him over me. I ended up getting very sick and needed hospital attention, and she was always calling and making sure I was OK. I got better but the friendship wasn't there still. She would only call me when they would have a fight and break up and she wouldn't tell me about it. They finally broke up for good in late August and the following Monday she called me for something she already knew. Since then she only seems to call me when its an emergency or if she really needs someone to talk too. I have decided I need to stop trying to talking to her constantly and that I need to give her some space. Is there any chance I can win her over? If so how?
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No guarantees however, if you want a chance firstly give her space, that is essential. Secondly, stop being her 'go to guy' because then she will always see you as a friend only. Stop hanging out too much, it will give her time to think and maybe miss you. Good lukk :)0
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