Not to sound stuck up, but I'm one of those girls who waits for the guy to make the first move. If things are good, and all of a sudden the guy stops calling or texting me, I assume that he's not interested or has move on. I will not text or call him until he does so first. I am just old fashioned and believe if a guy truly cares about a girl, he will step up and be a man. Agree? Disagree? I want to hear your thoughts.
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"I am just old fashioned and believe if a guy truly cares about a girl, he will step up and be a man." - What does that even mean? If he initiated and asked for your number and texted you first, what more do you want? For him to do all the work? And couldn't the same be said of you, assuming he's done these things already? Personally if I were that guy I'd be thinking "If she really liked me, I wouldn't need to be doing all the work, I should be met halfway."
In my opinion, if I liked you and asked for your number, I'm gonna send you a text first obviously. I basically reciprocate the amount of activity I receive. For example, if she texts me back a one word text, I might not even text back. If she's lengthy, I might be inclined as to be so myself. Other than that, I don't believe there's a "who should text first rule." I kinda just see it like tag, if I text you I won't text you again until I get a response, however long that might be. If it's an ongoing thing that she just doesn't respond frequently, I just basically do the same thing. Obviously I'm not going to prioritize someone that is not going to prioritize me.2