back when I began college I met this guy. h would text me all the time wanting to hang out, but at the time I was hanging out a lot with another guy, so I never really chilled with him. finally, I did, and we watched a movie and that was all. then one day I was drunk, and I went to his room and we hooked up, (not sex or head but I gave him a hand job) before that though, he had stopped texting me wanting to chill all the time because I was kinda ignoring it. but, now he'll text me randomly and be like what's up, and stuff. and today we finally chilled. we chilled in his room for a bit, then chilled with his friends, and then we went back to his room. we ended up hooking up. I gave him a hand job, and we kissed, but I wouldn't let him do anything to me, one because it's that type of month. and after, I wanted to leave because I was going to chill with my friend, and he was like, "do you have to leave, you should just chill with us." and said like, "okay, do you wanna chill again?" and I said, "yeah, if you want." and he said maybe we could get something to eat or something. I don't just wanna like hook up with this kid. do you feel like this is what he wants? like just to hook-up? I mean because I've made it easy for him... I won't have sex or give him head, but ill do what I've done to hi, and he doesn't even have to do anything back.. what do you think is going on with this situation, and how should I handle it? I don't want us to hook up every time we chill, and I don;'t know what to say to him regarding that..
I don't want us to hook up every time we chill. How do I go about this?
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Seriously. That's not what CHILLING is.
Stop giving him handjobs.0
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