is it cool at ask a guy you've been "seeing" where things are going before you take the next step? I really like this guy I have been seeing and things got pretty hot on our last date. But as much as I like him. We've only been out on a handful of dates but I've know him for 3 months and I am so new to dating I don't know how things go. Is there a rule for a number of dates before sex? I don't know. But I really like him, but I am no really into having sex with just anyone ( call me old fashioned) Can I ask him where this is going before I take that next step? is that a turn off? high maintenance? I don't know.
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yea you should ask him. Its not fair to you if he is just looking for some fun and you want a relationship0