I am 16 years old and have not been kissed. People have told me by word of mouth that I am "hot" and yet I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I know it's because of my personality, but I'm not mean at all, I'm just really shy, until I get to know someone, and then I become friendly but never friendly enough to get a boyfriend I guess. I get super nervous when talking to guys I like, and I get awkward when I like them a lot. Any advice? What can I do to fix this?
Thanks so much! xxx
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You can't really expect guys to respond to you in such a way if you hide the fact that you're attracted to them in the first place can you?
If you want to overcome your shyness around guys you've gotta take baby steps and slowly expand your comfort zone by doing things that exceed it. No quick fixes out there for you. We're talking years of proactive efforts.
Don't have years? have a friend tell the guy you like that you like him... won't work when you're older but I remember it working when I was younger. Back in the day when we just wanted to be liked by anyone and didn't rally care if we liked them ourselves. I miss those simpler times.