Over the summer I talked to this guy, Tyler, for a while. He stopped talking to me and went for this other girl that was a complete whore. She played him out by flirting with other guys while they were dating.
Just a couple days ago, Tyler started talking to me again. He apologized for everything and said he knew he made the wrong decision, and would do anything to change what happened in the summer and said he likes me again. I trust him and believe him, but I have a boyfriend now. I was flirting with Tyler a lot, and I know it's bad, I couldn't help it. I really liked him and was excited we could have a second chance. Tyler's gonna think I'm a whore now because I was flirting with him while I have a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I really, really like Tyler. like more than I like my boyfriend. We've only been dating for 5 days. I think I might break up with my boyfriend for Tyler. I was planning on breaking up with him anyway. What can I say to Tyler to keep him from thinking I'm a whore? (Which I'm not.) Please help.
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1. don't do anything that could damage your rep. be discreet, don't flirt around with people who have big mouths or are in the same social circle/know each other.
2. don't be easy with him. I know that's your boyfriend but if you let him get it early on, in the back of his mind many guys assume if it was so easy for him to get it, that you are not very virtuous. some guys have no problem having fun with a girl and calling her a whore when they're done (b/c they always felt that way about her deep down), but feel that a non-slutty girl would never let him get it that easily anyway
3. don't dress overly sexual or inappropriate for the situation. you can look sexy but keep it classy at the same time. and don't try to look sexy at all in neutral environments.
i don't know if there is anything you could *say* for a guy not to think you're a whore, it's more about your actions and the things you DONT do0