I have been seeing this guy for 2 months now. We only go out 1 night a week usually over weekend. Then he goes 4 or 5 days before I hear from him. I may even text him a question and don't hear from him for days. He is very busy and works 7 days a week but is a trainer and works different hours each day. He gets up early so is in bed for the night 9 or 10 o'clock most days. When we are together he acts like he is into me but won't commit to anything. Sometimes I feel like he is seeing me just for entertainment and then other days I feel he does like me. He did go to my familys house for christmas day and I thought that was a big deal, but he still acts like it is all casual. So is he into me and why doesn't he call? We are both in are later 40s even though he acts like in his 30s
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This one is easy. He doesn't call because you haven't created any value for yourself. He sees you as a booty call, and even though he went to your family's house for the holidays that's called "maintenance". He is doing what he needs to do to hang on to you and nothing more. This relationship is not going to change. You do see that don't you?
You haven't created any value for yourself but demanding higher standards. Go out, be with friends, and meet some new people. This relationship- if you can call it that is going nowhere!
By the way of COURSE he likes you. He can pop in and out of your life at random and you hang around waiting for his crumbs. Please do better by yourself. You deserve a lot more.0