I'm not getting any younger and the guy I want obviously doesn't want me. There is another guy that is interested but I'm not. He's a nice guy but I'm just not feeling it. Should I settle and go with the flow and hope that I will develop some feelings.
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I have dated someone that I truly wanted nothing to do with. I thought he was a great guy, but after our 'relationship' I can see that he's below the lowest. Matter of fact, he doesn't even deserve my words. But moving on, not all guys are like this of course, but assuming you decide to date this man you have little to absolutely no interest in, you may easily regret it. It may result in a loss of friendship. But no matter what, I wouldn't rely on feelings to grow. It's possible that they will develop sometime in the future, but right now they're not there - and that's not your fault. If he's truly interested, he can wait until you come to a final decision. As for the person you say is clearly uninterested, as long as you're sure he's not playing hard to get, let it go if you can. Those who can't see you for the valuable person you are inside do not deserve your heart. I only give you this advice because it led me to the person I am in love with and have been with now for over a year. Hopefully it will do the same for you.1
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