I'm not the best judge... so all of your opinions are greatly appreciated :) thank you.
On Friday, he took me out to dinner at a very nice restaurant and had planned out activities for the night. At the start of the night, I was impressed with him. He had made great efforts with the planning and making it on time to our rendezvous spot (he got into work early so that he could leave early, make the drive over to my city through over an hour of rush hour traffic, and meet me just as I got off work). Unfortunately, I can't be sure if it was just me, at some point during the date, I started to think that he was coming across as being very confident, but suspiciously so... he wasn't being "cocky", but I couldn't help feeling that he seemed to be too comfortable saying certain things/compliments that are sweet yet also could apply to another girl, if it wasn't me... and he didn't really have any qualms with just leaning in and kissing me towards the end of the night.
Maybe he's just a smooth guy, but I am hesitant to give him more credit because of this fact: we had already had sex a week ago prior to this first date. So I guess I'm cautious Because I don't really know what his game is here... I was pleasantly surprised that he looked me up and asked to go out on this date, but I can't be sure what he wants now. Something else? Or just wants more of the physical?
At this point, I do like him, but If it's just more of the physical, I'm not so interested. Which do you think it is?
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He already had sex with you, so if he was the player type he would have probably moved on to another girl. He did his very best to create a very pleasant evening, so that shows he does take you as more than a physical object.
And seeing as you already slept together, that's why he has no trouble being confident and kissing you, he knows he can have you.
So I suggest keep dating him.0