Do you believe this statement: girls choose the guys, and its the guys job to ask them out?
Most Helpful Girl
works either way. you get a girl who doesn't approach, it ain't gonna happen. cause sometimes the guy is too shy or nervous. and if you don't get a guy to approach a quiet shy girl, nothing happens. but then she needs to filter who comes approach her.
i get asked out a lot but I feel I have to filter a lot of the 'residue' out of the good stuff. I guess meaning there's a lot of guys who just aren't into me, but only the looks part. so yeah I got to choose and if I like him I approach. half of the guys I've gone out with, I've asked out. half of the other, have asked me out. goes both ways.1