For reasons beyond me, guys today have no idea the proper way to treat a girl and are reluctant to pay for us on dates. This is selfish and manipulative. I have a friend who was used in that way. If a guy doesn't pay for us we'll just go find another guy, simple as.
If you ask a girl out, YOU PAY!
If a girl asks you out, YOU PAY!
If its the first date, YOU PAY!
If its the 12th date, YOU PAY!
If its the last date, YOU PAY!
If you're just friends, it would depend on the girl but most of the time you should pay for that as well.
This is call just common sense. Don't use this as an excuse to cheap out either. If you're a guy and you don't have money, you shouldn't be dating.
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Then damn, glad I don't ask any girl unless they are already my girlfriend, but some girl I just saw or interested in? Hell no, Split it! Its not happening, Why don't you pay? If you don't want to pay, fine, I have a motto.
" IF she isn't with it, if she doesn't accept me or want to give it a shot, no problem, Adios"
If its my girlfriend, do believe she will be treated like a queen but not some random girl, not even if she was offering to let me into her pants if I let her into my wallet. I got principles and my pride, and that's two things that I will take to the grave with me =)1