I just want to make my boyfriend 100% happy..
and I want to keep it fun, but romantic too. What can I do?
And, what would you love for your girl to do? With you? For you?
Ladies, feel free to chime in too! ;-)
P.S- We are happy, I just want to go the extra step..I put in a lot of effort.
Not sure what else I can do...I am dressing up for him..like wearing lingerie for his birthday..and I will dance for him lol..and I am giving him a camera to take pics..lol..I am also taking him out to dinner and baking him a cake. Well, should I bake it? Or buy it? Thanks everyone! xx
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Take some initiative every now and then
Instaid of waiting for him to plan a date, do it yourself and surprise him with it! We set up most of the dates but its fun to be taken out ourselves sometimes =)
I love being confided in, I assume that's already the case but when its things that she doesn't tell anyone too easely or no one else knows, I feel extra good because I'm the only one which makes me feel more special and secure.
Little texts at random every now and then, I'm not a big fan of texting in general and favor actual conversation but if I'm at work and I get a text from a girlfriend with something cute and/or funny, it'll set a good mood for the rest of the day.
Try doing something he's wanted to do for a while now, surprise him with it. Doesn't necisarely have to be sexual but hey, guys like sex and he'll definitely enjoy that.
If I'm having a bad day, cheer me up! Sometimes just being there not saying anything can be enough, it'll enhance any emotional bond we already have. Its also fun being taken care off every now and then when your sick for example, bring him chickensoup, nurse him back to health and treat him a bit like a kid at the same time. Guaranteed fun and he'll appreciate the sentiment at the very least.
TEASE HIM(god the amount of times I got annoyed that girls actually stopped doing that ENTIRELY when we officially got in a relationship, I lost count) Nothing more fun then to get that initial fun vibe back every now and then with a whole lot of fun teasing and flirting.
Small gift for no apparent reason, doesn't have to be anything big or expensive but the sentiment is awesome. Girls expect us to do it, we don't expect girls to do it but when they do its quite awesome =)
Broaden his horizon, teach him new things, open his world up more to yours with regards to hobbys, interests and what not. Take a class together or plan a vacation together or something like that.
Surprise visit him during his lunchbreak or when he's finishing up at work and go do something =)
Obviously most of these things should be done in an appropriate dosis, otherwise you'll come across as too much of one and not enough of well.. yourself.1
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