Just wondering as it says, do you consider a guy kissing you on the first date to be disrespectful to women?
Also consider if it's a first date with someone you've never met in person, like someone you've met on the internet.
I met this girl online, we hit it off really well when chatting and all, we texted a lot for a few weeks, she was even calling me 'dear' and 'honey'. Finally we went on the first date, going bowling together, it went well and we had fun, joking and flirting and all, then when we were about to part ways, I wanted to kiss her (but I was a bit shy), so I said "Kiss me" and she leaned a bit and I kissed
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I don't accept a kiss on the first date. I have no moral issue with it, I just have been on many first dates and think it is too soon for me to know or send a message to the guy that I like him enough to kiss. Kissing is intimate, it should not be something you do with someone you barely know.
As far as a guy trying to kiss me on the first date, I am not a fan of it but I wouldn't necessarily think badly of him trying and I am good at deflecting a kiss without saying anything to the guy. I have had a couple of kisses land on my cheek and it happened so quick that I am sure the guy thought it was an accident and he shrugged it off. If the guy was insistent in trying again I would probably not date him again because that is pushy and makes him seem like someone who just wants a sexual deal.
Overall I would advise you not trying to kiss the girl but giving her a hug and on the 2nd date going for a kiss.4