Currently I'm involved in a long distance relationship and lately my girlfriend has said she's been getting annoyed at me because I ask her to many questions about her day. She said I should already know the answers to these questions I ask her. Like she'll go out and then we'll talk later and she'll say her night was good but then when I start asking her questions about her night she gets annoyed because I ask to many questions. I tell her I ask her these questions because I want to know about her day and how she's doing. What should I tell her about this issue because really I just care about her and it's tough to care about someone in a long distance relationship without asking questions.
Am I wrong to ask my girlfriend to many questions about her day?
What Girls Said 3
I think if you're overbearing, or asking questions just for the heck of small talk. If you're genuinely curious about her day, then go for it! I also ask a lot of questions when someone is too short, and it's aggravating when they get mad. You should talk to her about it! Let her know that you're genuinely concerned that you're thinking about her feelings. Also, you don't always have to ask questions, I know after a long day, I don't always want to sit and talk. Nothing personal, just instinct0
Ouch. Doesn't sound like a 2 sided relationship to me. She should be just as curious how your day is
If she's getting defensive tho, not generally a good sign0
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