I met this guy at my college a couple months ago and within the last few weeks we've been talking more. He asked me for my number, but he made it seem like it was only in a friendly basis. Then, he texted me about homework the next day and then again the day after that just for friendly conversation. He didn't text me for a little over a week, but we still talked in class. I didn't want him to think he was bugging me so I texted him one day. This was the first time I ever texted him first.
The next time I saw him at school we started talking and we got out of class really early so he asked me if I wanted to get something to eat. We went to mcdonalds and he waited for me to figure out what I wanted and then asked me what I was going to get. I had my wallet out but he insisted on paying for both of us and I told him I felt really bad about him paying. He said it wasn't a big deal. Then when we were driving back he casually goes, "well that was a pretty nice lunch date" and I played it off like I didn't hear him say "date" and I just said "yeah, it was good"
Then when we got back to school he went in before me and was talking to his friend. When I came in his friend turned and said "did you go out on a date with this guy?" I almost died. And then the guy I went with goes "yeah, we did"
I honestly just thought he was only being nice. The thing I need to know is: do you think he bought me lunch because I texted him, giving him the idea that I was interested? Should I have not texted him at all?
Because I feel like I shouldn't have texted him. It wasn't flirty or anything. Just normal convo. I feel like I basically said "i like you" by texting him. Because I don't think he would have bought me lunch if I had just not ever texted him. I'm freaking out. I have never been the instigator of anything like this and I feel so stupid because I think I made the first move by texting him.
And if this matters I think he's really nice, funny, and cute, but I don't know if I know him well enough for him to just take me on a date. I was really caught off guard by him paying. I don't know why I'm freaking out. Anyway, back to my question, did I give him the idea that I was interested because I texted him? HELP ME. PLEASE. :/
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no it doesn't sound like you at all in any way led him on, and he had no reason to think that spontaneous lunch outing was a date, he was probably trying to make it a date, if you don't like him which it sounds like you dont, you should let him no as soon as possible otherwise its just going to get worse for u0