My bf= "Luke"
Guy I like = "Matt"
The thing is, I've never had any real feelings for my boyfriend, so I don't see it as a big deal that I like Matt. But he does, which makes me feel bad. I've been dating Luke for three months now and I'm not sure it's even going to last the end of this year. But even if Luke and I DO break up, we all go to the same school and Luke and Matt talk to each other on a daily basis :/ they're "kind of friends". I sit next to Matt in my fourth hour and we all sit next to each other during lunch. Luke tells me he thinks Matt's funny, but cocky and talks a lot of sh*t. Matt tells me he thinks Luke is a nice guy, but he's cocky and never backs up his words with actions. So they both think each others cocky. I haven't had this kind of crush on a boy since fourth grade. Should... I go for it? I was thinking of waiting and seeing what happens. One way or another, Luke is going to cause me to break up with him. I just don't think it should be because I want another guy, 'cuz that makes me seem like a whore. Which yeah, I guess I'm not the best girlfriend, but that's way extreme, especially if I don't get the guy I'm mega crushing on =(
So, girls, guys, can I get some advice here?
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I'm afraid you'll have to move slowly toward Matt, spend more time alone with Matt & help Luke find something/someone else to do to occupy his schedule, make the time gap from you less painful. A foursome needs to be created with some gal that would love to spend more time with Luke. At first, she could be "Matt's date/friend/cousin/whatever" as you all be gin to hang out. Take it slowly and things should work out your way and the gang all stays friends, with Luke worried that he might hurt YOUR feelings by becoming more distant.1