i really like this guy when I was still in high school, sometimes he gives me hints that he likes me. but I still heard rumors about the girl she likes. so I just kind of let go of him. then I went to college, for those years I still like the guy. now, I have this friend in college whom I could trust, I could get along with, and previously he's been showing me hints, which I like, (he still did not confess but I know). but then just when I thought I could be in a relationship with that guy, the guy from my high school says he likes me. for how many years, he said. he just don't have the courage to say that he likes me for all those years. now I'm in a mess. I don't know what to do. I like them both. just that I don't know who I like better.
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go with the guy that you're telling yourself that you want more. There is definitely always one guy you like to be with mor eits just that he may be missing a trait that the other guy has. Go with the guy you like.
same thing happened to me a while ago and funny thing was my friends sat down and wrote 2 lists of pros and cons for each guy and I chose based on what they could offer me-bad move. secretively I liked the guy who wasn't as consistant and he was actually the one who genuinely liked me the other guy was using me as a fling showing me just his good sides.
trust your instincts theyre always right:)0