So there's this guy Matt from my bio class. We got coffee on Thursday and have been texting each other non-stop since then. Since then, he's admitted he likes me, wants to go on a date, wishes I could've gone to a Halloween party with him but I was sick this weekend, etc.
We have tentative plans to go on a "real" date. But in the meantime, he offered to help tutor me for a Bio quiz on Fri. so he's coming over Wed. and Thurs. I also invited him over to my dorm to hang out tonight when he gets off work at like 10pm.
Am I sending the wrong signal to him by just inviting him over to watch movies, study, chill in my dorm and not suggesting we go out and do date-y things?
Is there a real difference dating vs. hanging out?
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well your not sending the wrong signal by inviting him over to help study, chill and or hang out. With that you two can get to bond, know each other,etc before even the date so that the date will go even more swimmingly.
The difference between dating and hanging out is only by the title really. Its the same sh*t, just different name. With dating your upfront about being with your lover and hopefully seeing where it can, oppose to hanging out is more of a way to bond and truly get to know each other with less stress of being on the spotlight.