Well I recently turned 21, and the odd thing about me is that I've never gone on a date with a guy! :( I just feel like I'm getting old, and yes I know I should be more actively looking out for a guy (of course I've met a few cute guys at school but was too shy to take things further).
My mother even told me to find a decent guy and start dating. I mean, I have no objection to that, but I feel like I shouldn't date some guy I know who I'm not even attracted to! For instance, I would hang out with a group of classmates (I'm not entirely close to them, like I don't share much about myself but they are my old friends) and one time one of them hinted that I should go out with a guy in that group. All I thought was "what? But he's too shy!". I'm not even sure if he likes me or not, because he's too shy around girls (all of us played truth or dare before and it was revealed that he has never had a girlfriend before). This sounds kind of mean, but he seems like a loser type of person to me, since he seems like he can't initiate anything with a girl.
So what should I do? I don't want to be desperate, and I'm still on the lookout for a decent, cute guy. And I'm worried that it might be too late for me if I don't start getting the experience, sigh. :(
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maybe you look like a loser type to a lot of other people because you never hae gone on a date before. I think it's kind of cruel to think like that when you are in the same position lol . But you shouldn't date a guy you don't like indeed , but are you sure you don't like him ? maybe you just don't know him? A date is a tool to get to know someone , you can always bail out if it's bad :D .
I don't think it's too late at all , you're still young , although I understand your worries , I'm 19 and never went on a decent date either and I sometimes also have the feeling" I can hear the clock ticking " :p
It's all about making clear you are single and looking for someone I guess , not beeing too shy to make the first step yourself , and just have fun :D1