Do guys put much weight into a girls conversational ability through text?
I'm a very out-going person but when it comes to texting or any other form of communication other than face-to-face, I fall a little flat. I just hate this way of communicating so I don't put any effort into it and I tend to kill conversations not because I don't like the person I'm talking to but because I don't like the device we're using.
Now for a guy is this a big deal? If you knew that a girl was fun and a good conversationalist in person would her lack of texting enthusiasm turn you off?
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Texting is way different than in-person.
I have more fun chatting with girls face-to-face. When it comes down to texting, the conversations are very brief, at most. I might flirt here and there, but it dies out within 5-10 minutes (or after 3-4 replies).
There are some nights where a female friend of mine will want me to call her, so I do. That's when we actually DO talk for a bit.
But other than that, texting is not that big of a deal. It's passive, you don't hear the person's voice, and I usually text to just ask a question, set something up, or respond to the individual. It never involves a big-hearted, deep conversation.0