So, I recently started texting a friend from theater camp. He's 15. I'm 14. We've been talking for a couple weeks now. He asked me out after my Halloween party last week. We saw each other at another party a couple days later and again at a tech thing for a play I'm involved in. We made plans to go to the movies this weekend. Should he pay? Should I expect him to? Or should I? What's he going to assume should happen?
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You should _expect_ to pay for yourself. He may offer. If he offers, he is likely trying to say 'this is a date, we're not just going as friends'. At that point its up to you. If you don't like him, I'd insist on paying for sure. If you like him, you can either let him pay, thank him, and perhaps pay for him another time, OR tell him that he doesn't need to pay for you to impress you, and pay for yourself, but squeeze his arm or something to let him know that you're not rejecting his idea that its a 'date'.
Also, have fun :)0