Say you're into a girl and have been talking a lot and are in those pre-dating stages. You make plans to hang out together, but now she suggests doing something else and wants you to make the decision. Well, you don't really want to do what they suggested, but she said something along the lines of "I really want to...but it's your call". Would you go with what she wants to do just to keep her happy; even though you don't want to do it?
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I often do, yeah for a lot of different things and people. For instance, with my sister, even though I don't want to because I don't have unlimited cash, I will still lend her money when she needs it. Even though she owes me a lot of money that she says she will pay back.
And for my one best friend, who can't do anything on her own, I will drop what I am doing just to go with her to do something anyone can do on their own, like grocery shopping, just because her boyfriend isn't around.
And for guys I really like, I will do something for him, even though I don't want to just so I can see that smile on his face. It feels good knowing that I've just really pleased him, even though I am doing something I don't want to do. There have been a few times, this has happened.
It might sound odd, but all of the above feels good, because I know I am helping someone, and yet I would rather see a smile on my crushes face (or a guy I am in a relationship with) then I would for my sister or my best friend. There is some kind of a warmth I get when I know I've done something that really pleases a man I am in love with. So it's worth it in the end to do something for them even though I didn't want to.0