Take for instance me. I always find myself crushing on guys that I know are EXTREMELY WAY out of my league.
Then I always notice that the guys I want to pay me attention are the guys who would never. I also notice that guys who do pay me attention are the guys who I would never see as boyfriend material. Maybe friends, but nothing more.
I've noticed this in a lot of my friends too. Since most of my friends are males, I took notice that the girls they drool over the most are the girls who probably wouldn't think twice about them, if even at all. It's the exact same thing with my female friends, too.
I know that most of you will say it's because temptations are always there and such but I feel like there is more to it.
I'd appreciate meaningful answers and if your answer is that of the above, then, that's fine too. I just don't want any mean or hateful answers.
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