Okay there are times when I might get a girl's number or eventually go on one or two dates. Then all of sudden when I might text her or call her and she won't answer or return my calls. This might happen a couple times until I just stop and delete her number from my phone book. Then I might see them and they will either say that I haven't called them in a while or just act like nothing happened and try to act friendly with me, expecting me to ask her out again (which I never really do, okay I did slip up and asked one girl out on a date after this happened).
Is this a test that girls have or something, because right now I am lost and don't have a clue? Also I don't know if I should be more persistent and keep trying?
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I think you are doing the right thing. A lot of girls will do anything to avoid being honest or mature, so the only way they can end a relationship is to just stop returning calls. When they see you in person, they are acting friendly to avoid any confrontation or honesty.
I would suggest you be friendly back but never take any kind of action. If they are really interested in seeing you again they should have to demonstrate some initiative. So you could say something like, "give me a call" so the ball is in their court. There is no reason to waste any more time on someone who won't return calls.
Anyway, just one guy's opinion, I might be wrong.0