Because I'm fairly certain if a guy looked like Johnny Depp or Orlando Bloom, was tall, successful, adroit and treated women "too nice" that most wouldn't have any problem with it. Right?
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Too nice = not attracted to. It's often a copout excuse, because nobody wants to say "I don't find you sexually attractive."
However, too nice can also mean the person is no fun to be around. It's not just looks. They don't seem to have a personality because they are always trying to guess how to make the other person happy. This isn't just romantic relationships, but friendships as well. Most people want to spend time with someone that they enjoy being around, who engages them by being compatible, but separate. People who are "too nice" are often passive-aggressive people who try to read the minds of others, make decisions based on this and (secretly) also feel resentment that they are trying so hard and cannot get the results they want. It's super hard to actually form a relationship with someone who is like this.0