It seems to me that I look for an attractive guy, then I try to find something good in him to make me want to date him. It feels like looks is a really big thing to me. For example, there's two guys that I talk to right now. One is cute, and has a good personality and I guess would be called 'safe.' where as the other , is a babe .. He's a nice guy, but I also get the hint he's a bit of a player and that this isn't his first rodeo. But for some reason, I'd rather pursue the less safe choice and try to mold him into what I want. I was thinking about going for the safe one, but I'm not really attracted to him .. So I think that would cause problems. So which guy?
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"But for some reason, I'd rather pursue the less safe choice and try to mold hin into what I want."
They ALL try to do that, and they ALL fail. Just read the all the "I dated a player and now I feel like he's cheating on me" questions on here, you'll get the hint. But HEY, maybe you'll be the one to succeed, who knows.
All I know is that it's questions like these that make guys wonder why we shouldn't just all be a**hole/player types, or why it even matters having a "good" personality when it seems like such a disadvantage. I guess when you can't control what you put your penis into, you're much more exciting because women want to tame you...4
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