I went on a first date a week ago tonight. I thought we both had a real good time and the chemistry was intense. He said he was going to Miami the next day for a week. Should I be worried that he still hasn't called me? Is he waiting to get back from him trip?
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I just got a few texts ignored (long story) not too long ago and I was thinking today "What if she hits me back in a week or two as if nothing happened?"
The only conclusion I could draw is that if she was going to play the ignore game with me then she obviously thinks of me as a toy to play with, so if she hits me back it probably means she just got bored of whatever else she had going on.
Tread carefully on this one is what I'm saying, he could just be feeding his ego because he knows you like him, and I'm sorry to say but obviously a lot more then he likes you. Same thing as in my story. Keep your guard up, you don't have to ignore him but you need to stop showing emotions for him and text calm and neutral. Think of it as texting an acquaintance who might possibly want to hang out with you, nothing more. You did all the chasing up to this point, if he's truly interested let him come to you- but do NOT let him bait you into chasing him all over again. I know you'd want to do nothing but return his flirts and advances but I guarantee you it'll end up just feeding his ego and hell drop you like a hot potato again.
Stay strong, you and I both are in the same boat so I feel for ya.0