My boyfriend of 3 months won't buy me anything. He said that all his ex girlfriends did everything for him and were there when he needed them. So if I want him to be the man I need him to be I would have to do as they did. Since I won't do anything for him he feels like he should be with another girl. But every time I break up with him he calls me back and tries to make up with me. I do little things like take him out to eat but he wants more like shoes and stuff. Should I do more things for him to show him I'm a good girlfriend and so he can start being there for me or should I stop trying move on ?
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Stop trying and move on. If you have to buy this guys love, it's not worth it. Think about it if the tables were turned. What if you told him that he had to buy things in order for you to love him. Then everyone would be calling you a money-grubber, gold-digger, etc... This is exactly what he sounds like to me. He doesn't care about you, he just wants someone to buy him stuff. Why be with someone who doesn't love you?
This guy sounds like a jerk, I would dump him right away and stop talking to him. He doesn't miss you, he misses the things that you buy for him. Stop taking him out, stop talking to him and stop dating him. There are way better guys out there than this guy.
Besides a relationship is supposed to be about two people who love each other, not how much money and things you can get from the other person. This is a very one-sided relationship. He only cares about getting things, not giving you anything in return like love. You shouldn't have to essentially pay someone to love you or to be good to you. That should come automatically with love. This guy doesn't love you, he only loves your wallet.3