I met this boy a few weeks ago and we basically party every week-end together and we end up at his place every time.
We haven't had the talk about what we were looking for, and so it's a little bit confusing too me. I couldn't say I'm love, but I really like him and I am being exclusive to him.
The thing is I don't know whether or not I can be very touchy in public. I usually just kiss him on the cheeks (I'm from Europe and this is how girls greet both girls and guys), and I stroke his fingers from times to times, but I don't dare trying to hold hands with him. He does hold my hand a bit and grabs me by the hip.
The thing is I am very affectionate, and I like to show my "love", but I don't know what are the limits when it comes to a f*** buddy ?
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You need to hash that out with him, Missy. I'm a fairly affectionate European too, but I don't allow for random (and public) hip-steering unless there's a major understanding in place.
You just decided to be exclusive and to let him do whatever he likes with you in pubic. This sends a very clear message out to people who see you. Get a clear perspective and discuss it with him. Draw the line yourself.0