I've known her for 11 months. I don't get to see her much cause she's busy with school and work. I saw her one month go. Yesterday we went to the movies. Little flirting and some holding hands. When I took her home I walked her to her door and she have me a long tight hug. Then we said a few things, but I made it awkward cause I didn't kiss her and hugged her two more times... I texted her later cause I felt like if I knew she still had a good time is feel better about it but she didn't reply. He may have been asleep already cause she eas tired. What do I do now?
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The awkward hug is fine. But being so uncomfortable that you NEEDED to text her was an awful move... but I suspect you know that.
Also... it's only awkward if YOU'RE awkward.
Best next move is to just continue interacting with her like you would have you kissed her goodnight.
Since she didn't reply to your last text (hopefully it was a normal text and not something horribly needy) you must give her time to miss you. I don't know what your current texting frequency is... but double or triple it. This gives her time to wonder what you're doing.
Then touch base with something flirty and fun. Maybe a super cute photo of a puppy next to your face? Or that funny guy you guys saw at the mall? Or Justin Beiber with a message that says, "I've found the perfect guy for you!"
Touch base, flirt, and get her alone again. And this time KISS HER...
Continuing to have awkward dates where you end up hugging her, going home nervous, and wondering where you're at every night?
OR trying to kiss her only to have her push you away with a giggle, and then her saying, "Listen... I don't like you that way" after which you can go home and feel proud of yourself for making a move AND you can relax knowing how she feels. PLUS, if she's open to another "date" you can try again... because if she's open to another date then she's open to you trying to kiss her again.
Either way... give her space, time, and then flirty fun text's/phone calls... and escalate.
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