So I joined Plenty of Fish about a month and a half ago and have been on 2 dates, the first one... I just didn't click with him and I just wasn't super interested, the second one was great, the guy treats me really great and we will probably go out again but he is not the... most attractive guy. Most recently I have been talking to 2 other guys 1 is 25 and a personal trainer he's in college and he is super super super sexy the other is 31 and a veteran and he is super super sexy too. So I am interning 2 hours from home but I came home Weds for the week for Thanksgiving and I was so excited because I was going to go out on a date with both of these guys and hopefully click with one of them and omg it would be wonderful and perfect... NEITHER ******* one of them was able to go out this weekend.. the one guy the 25 year old is moving tomorrow and he barely even texted me... he didn't even text me back when I asked if he was going to see me tomorrow and I know he got it because I just saw his status on FB and it was a mobile status change so that means he had to have used his phone and my text HAD to have popped up... The 31 year old he said that his best night was Weds... well I couldn't on Weds and he said he would try either today or tomorrow.. I HAVEN'T EVEN GOTTEN A TEXT FROM HIM! I just hate men so much like all I want is to meet a good guy, be married have babies and have a good life and that's not happening I am not meeting anyone I want that with... I should have just stayed with my ex because I know that he would have married me by now and we would probably have a baby and he had a kid also so I would be a mom. I just don't understand why my plans never work out? Both guys were interested... what changed in 1 ******* DAY! Like I'm just so confused and sad because now I have no plans this weekend and I'm bored and sad because I just want a boyfriend soon :( What do I do? I mean its easy to say not to focus on guys and to just get myself together but... I am together like I need a relationship... I'm tired of being single its terrible I seriously would date anyone at this point I don't even care anymore... I'm considering trying to go crawling back to my ex because at least he would have a baby with me soon and marry me.
I mean even if these guys just wanted sex... you still have to put some effort in to get sex? I am confused I mean maybe they are just legitimately busy? But I won't be home for another 2 weeks so I won't be able to go out on a date for the next 2 weeks, what if they don't want to wait that long.? I'm so pissed off like I really wanted to go out on some dates! I want to go out with attractive guys who I am interested in, I mean its great having not hot guys who like me but I want attraction and attractiveness...
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Your working way to hard trying to make this happen. Relax and enjoy life, you are young and sounds like your not yet done with school. Get that out of the way first, then get a good job (if you already don't have it). Then just live your life and let things take there natural course in happening. Crawling back to an ex just so you can have a guy who will breed you and you think will marry you isn't a very valid idea. You'd be better off doing what I am doing which is just plain trying to get bred, having the child without the frills of keeping the guy around. Don't even what him to know who he is. My 6yr old I got very similiar to this, wasn't a planned thing, just a night I let several guys do me and one filled me with the magic goo and 9 mo's later here she was and I have no idea who he was and don't care to ever know. I am a very good mom love Lexi to pieces and if she is to have a sibbling now is the time. I am in no way interested in a husband at this time, maybe this will change some day and if a guy comes along who loves me and can accept my children then we will see.
Force a guy into marriage and children and I can guarentee he will not be around all that long.0