A guy has never asked me to a dance or date and I don't know why. My 250lb butch lesbian friend has had more dates and boyfriends that I've ever imagined (she was confused about her sexual orientation back then but she still dressed all manly and was aggressive). I mean I think I'm funny, well at least people laugh at my jokes and I'm pretty attractive granted I'm on the bit heavier side of the spectrum. People have told me I have pretty eyes and beautiful hair and that my face is really pleasant. I think I'm a nice person, I'm very sociable and I'm friends with almost everyone but still no guy has even shown remote interest. I mean what I think of myself and what I hear others thing could be wrong... hopefully not..
I mean I've flirted with guys before but nothing ever occurs with it. I'm too self conscious to as a guy out. Yes I am, please don't tell me to just go for it because I'm still not the confident about myself (I make sure not to show my low self esteem to people though). I just don't understand
I think I'd be a great date or girlfriend. Why do you think this is?
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You mention your lesbian friend is 250lbs but nothing about your weight.
Pretty eyes and beautiful hair, sound like the sort of compliments women give someone. Or men, who can't say something nice about your face. You just may not be attractive to guys your age.0