i'm really confused and upset. so I've been dating this guy for almost two months. we really hit it off...can talk for hours when we're together...very similar background, same type of baggage from divorce and custody issues, similar families, and we can laugh our asses off...didn't even kiss ti 3rd date which was really nice Because it felt like it was built up tension and the first two dates we really got to know each other. fourth date went amazing he made me dinner we talked til 2 in the morning he didn't try anything I went to leave and well then we both kinda lost it and slept together and I spent the night...and I don't regret it not even now. it felt right. had last date with him last Saturday and spent the night again...left Sunday afternoon. he did say he was going to be swamped this week and he isn't much of a talk/text guy at least up to this point, but I haven't heard from him since last Sunday night. I texted him wed night with just a casual text about checking out a YouTube video when he had the chance...i didn't ask about plans or us I wasn't trying to be clingy I just thought it was funny video. but still haven't heard from him. have I been blown off? he had said Sunday he would plan a fun date for next date so I'm so confused as to why he hasn't even just sent a quick text saying hey...is he done with me? I have a good life and I am busy too but I still would like to hear from him a little bit. I just don't get it. and I'm really easygoing, I'm not clingy at all...i'm always told I'm the perfect type of girlfriend Because I am so easygoing and one of the guys and lets guys be guys and do own thing and I like to do my own thing and spend time with my friends. but now I wonder maybe that just makes me a doormat. I dunno. I'm really confused. I haven't been in dating world again very long Because I was married so long so maybe I'm just naive about these things. but why would a guy who seems so nice do this? after half a dozen dates? it's not like we just had a couple and he disappeared...i just don't get it.
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Mayb3e he's not a 'player', but any guy after a divorce is going to 'play the field' a little; he's not going to have an exclusive relationship right away. That's why he didn't push sex, he wanted to evaluate you and other women first.
I suspect he regrets getting that serious with you even after several dates.
I mean, that's just a guess, you don't tell us a lot about him.
So don't expect to have his exclusive attention...he's most likely dating others. He'll get back to you, I'm pretty sure. Not to mention, issues with the ex, custody, the kids, he doesn't have the time a single guy would.0
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