board georgous married man,his wife has become unkept over the years,I deliver mail to his house and when I encounter him we both engage in long gazes.he won't ask why? should i?
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Yeah, we're all big girls and big boys and we know better. Aside from all that, you could totally live out a fantasy! I know, I'm bad. You should accept the fact that it would only be a fling so if you want or need more than that, look elsewhere.
As far as initiating, I would let him do that since he's the married one and it's his house. It's not really your place to ask unless you're really aggressive and self confident. If I were you, I would flirt lots and never let conversations be too serious. Do not be nosy. Just have fun with it and be patient. It may never happen so understand that and don't be upset if things don't happen fast enough or even at all. Timing is everything.0